One of the greatest desires of humans is the need to feel loved, to feel accepted by others. Another need so closely knitted is the need to feel needed. When people don’t feel needed, they develop a low or negative self-image, and consequently, self-esteem of themselves. They begin to feelContinue Reading

“I don’t know why exactly I’m paying this guy”, lamented a CEO. He has a good heart, and he believes the pay should be commensurate to the services rendered or actual work done. But he believes this ‘guy’ is just not doing enough to deserve the kind of money heContinue Reading

Ever seen any movie on gladiators? A gladiator is a fighter (in ancient Rome) who fought another combatant in the arena to the excitement of the spectators. One thing is certain every time the arena opens – blood must be spilled. Each gladiator is then left but with only oneContinue Reading

Do you know that the first recorded murder in human history is related to religion? The Christian Bible has a story of two brothers who went to offer sacrifices to God: Cain and Abel. Abel’s offering was accepted while Cain’s was not. This made Cain so infuriated that he killedContinue Reading

Growing up, I hear the elders say, “Give honour to whom it is due!” I used to think this is the norm till I began to search into human behaviours, especially as it relates to work. I discovered that Fela Kuti’s Monkey dey work, Baboon dey shop is not applicableContinue Reading

Dogs are a very wonderful breed of animals that so much can be learnt from them. When they are puppies, they are docile and friendly. This gives them the avenue to get used to the owner and other people in the house. As they grow older, however, they tend toContinue Reading

One of the main challenges of adolescents is that they are in a transition: they know they should leave where they used to be and move up to some higher calling, but they are not exactly sure what it is they want, and where exactly they are going. Their rolesContinue Reading

From the original design of mankind, greatness is encoded in his DNA. This was meant to be unlocked and maximized through the right relationships. However, since selfishness entered into the human race, man became unwilling to share the glory and rewards. Hence, he has had to tend to go itContinue Reading

Roll Back. Take out some time to think through how it all started. Ask yourself some heart-searching questions: why did I take up this job in the first place? What where the plans I had from the onset for taking this job? What attracted me to this organization? What qualityContinue Reading